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		<title>By: mjmasseyjr</title>
		<link>http://www.baileylongcloth.com/2010/01/27/its-been-a-while/comment-page-1/#comment-3336</link>
		<dc:creator>mjmasseyjr</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 30 Jan 2010 08:51:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wow... just wow.
Is the only thing you can do is rant and rave, call people names and cast aspersions upon others?

I think I&#039;m usually a good judge of character, and I never particularly liked you.  If I was ever polite it was for the mere fact that those I care for, saw something in you.  I may have even said something to Dazy regarding this, but... well, it&#039;s been proven really now.

It takes a better magician to fool another... and honestly, I was practicing your tricks in Kindergarten.
 
One time that I remember which really stands out is when you went full tilt off on Dazy because you thought she left your Group.  That was quite a telling moment, don&#039;t you think? .... all over a misunderstanding.

I went far out of my way to not RP with you as much as possible... I recall that in order for MJ to be promoted to Soldier, MJ was told to spar with Ioh.  Instead he sparred and trained mostly with Kiri, even though at the time IC she had been demoted at the time.  

News flash, dude.  You and your alts were not just a joke, you&#039;re the punchline.  Many a person had quite a laugh of Cowboy Luke and the possibility of cowboy and indian bed sheets, down to the skin that Ioh and Cicero has/d.

Sorry BL, that this has happened to you, but honestly, it was only a matter of time.  It was definitely one of those situations where no one, including you, would have listened to me until it happened.  Definitely one of the cases of your happiness trumping my feelings for the partner.  You never did come up in conversations, or were part of the joke or punchline.  Many though were empathetic and maintained the &quot;as long as she&#039;s happy&quot; stance.  Though none were shocked and none are shocked of the recent transpiring situation.

I&#039;ve been in those positions with exes, and it sucks.  But one day, the true colours do shine through and the light is so bright it&#039;s blinding.

That all said, I wish no ill will toward you, Ioh.   First, what kind of person would I be if I did?  Second, who am I to do such a thing?   Third, what good would it do in the end, in the grand scheme of things?   I can only hope that the next girl does due diligence and hits Google up.

What should be done though, is that you should lose this website.  That you even come here and comment, add nothing and detract everything only perpetuates the idea that you can&#039;t let well enough alone.    I scanned your blog, and I did not see any replies from Ayami, Aribeth, and either Bailey.  

To me, it&#039;s not worth it to come to your home and defecate on your lawn.  Your delusions of grandeur and appalling behaviour will eventually catch up with you.

You have shown time after time you have no originality.

Proven time after time that repeating the same behaviour and expecting a different outcome is the definition of madness.

Proven time after time that you need to resort to belittling and name calling to bolster your own point, ego and self-esteem.

But alas, often it&#039;s more fun to watch the fish flap about on land searching for the water itself than it is to place it back in the water.

But until then, I see no end in sight of the caricature of yourself you&#039;re creating.

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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wow&#8230; just wow.<br />
Is the only thing you can do is rant and rave, call people names and cast aspersions upon others?</p>
<p>I think I&#8217;m usually a good judge of character, and I never particularly liked you.  If I was ever polite it was for the mere fact that those I care for, saw something in you.  I may have even said something to Dazy regarding this, but&#8230; well, it&#8217;s been proven really now.</p>
<p>It takes a better magician to fool another&#8230; and honestly, I was practicing your tricks in Kindergarten.</p>
<p>One time that I remember which really stands out is when you went full tilt off on Dazy because you thought she left your Group.  That was quite a telling moment, don&#8217;t you think? &#8230;. all over a misunderstanding.</p>
<p>I went far out of my way to not RP with you as much as possible&#8230; I recall that in order for MJ to be promoted to Soldier, MJ was told to spar with Ioh.  Instead he sparred and trained mostly with Kiri, even though at the time IC she had been demoted at the time.  </p>
<p>News flash, dude.  You and your alts were not just a joke, you&#8217;re the punchline.  Many a person had quite a laugh of Cowboy Luke and the possibility of cowboy and indian bed sheets, down to the skin that Ioh and Cicero has/d.</p>
<p>Sorry BL, that this has happened to you, but honestly, it was only a matter of time.  It was definitely one of those situations where no one, including you, would have listened to me until it happened.  Definitely one of the cases of your happiness trumping my feelings for the partner.  You never did come up in conversations, or were part of the joke or punchline.  Many though were empathetic and maintained the &#8220;as long as she&#8217;s happy&#8221; stance.  Though none were shocked and none are shocked of the recent transpiring situation.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve been in those positions with exes, and it sucks.  But one day, the true colours do shine through and the light is so bright it&#8217;s blinding.</p>
<p>That all said, I wish no ill will toward you, Ioh.   First, what kind of person would I be if I did?  Second, who am I to do such a thing?   Third, what good would it do in the end, in the grand scheme of things?   I can only hope that the next girl does due diligence and hits Google up.</p>
<p>What should be done though, is that you should lose this website.  That you even come here and comment, add nothing and detract everything only perpetuates the idea that you can&#8217;t let well enough alone.    I scanned your blog, and I did not see any replies from Ayami, Aribeth, and either Bailey.  </p>
<p>To me, it&#8217;s not worth it to come to your home and defecate on your lawn.  Your delusions of grandeur and appalling behaviour will eventually catch up with you.</p>
<p>You have shown time after time you have no originality.</p>
<p>Proven time after time that repeating the same behaviour and expecting a different outcome is the definition of madness.</p>
<p>Proven time after time that you need to resort to belittling and name calling to bolster your own point, ego and self-esteem.</p>
<p>But alas, often it&#8217;s more fun to watch the fish flap about on land searching for the water itself than it is to place it back in the water.</p>
<p>But until then, I see no end in sight of the caricature of yourself you&#8217;re creating.</p>
<p>Best regards.</p>
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		<title>By: Aribeth Coronet</title>
		<link>http://www.baileylongcloth.com/2010/01/27/its-been-a-while/comment-page-1/#comment-3335</link>
		<dc:creator>Aribeth Coronet</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 30 Jan 2010 08:38:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yes I am bitchy. Yes I am &#039;pompous&#039; and &#039;spoiled&#039;. At least my vision of the world isn&#039;t sadly jaded, as yours seems to be. I don&#039;t hate you, Ioh. I just pity you.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yes I am bitchy. Yes I am &#8216;pompous&#8217; and &#8217;spoiled&#8217;. At least my vision of the world isn&#8217;t sadly jaded, as yours seems to be. I don&#8217;t hate you, Ioh. I just pity you.</p>
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		<title>By: Ioh</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ioh</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 30 Jan 2010 02:33:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;ve lied about nothing, Ari, you&#039;re just pissed because I deleted yours and Ayami&#039;s posts off my Flickr.  And then you snapped at me online when all I was saying was &#039;hi.&#039;  Why should I have any respect for you, or Ayami.  I already know you both are bitchy and hot heads.  And I&#039;m sure have run your mouths behind the scenes plenty.  Why I don&#039;t trust &#039;privacy&#039;, since I know what back stabbing remarks you both are likely saying.  

And it&#039;s not lashing out when it&#039;s true.  But it is back stabbing when you toss the shit in the background and in privacy.

But oh well, keep to Midian and Angel  Square, and if you don&#039;t want to hear me speak openly about you or Aya, the simple thing to do is to quit ranting about me.  Take a deep breath, step back, and then shut up.  


You are just a pompous, bitchy ass spoiled girl, and that shows plenty in your responses.  Don&#039;t want people to realize that about you, the don&#039;t spew out your mouth you stupid ramblings, and I won&#039;t have any reason to retort back.  :p</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve lied about nothing, Ari, you&#8217;re just pissed because I deleted yours and Ayami&#8217;s posts off my Flickr.  And then you snapped at me online when all I was saying was &#8216;hi.&#8217;  Why should I have any respect for you, or Ayami.  I already know you both are bitchy and hot heads.  And I&#8217;m sure have run your mouths behind the scenes plenty.  Why I don&#8217;t trust &#8216;privacy&#8217;, since I know what back stabbing remarks you both are likely saying.  </p>
<p>And it&#8217;s not lashing out when it&#8217;s true.  But it is back stabbing when you toss the shit in the background and in privacy.</p>
<p>But oh well, keep to Midian and Angel  Square, and if you don&#8217;t want to hear me speak openly about you or Aya, the simple thing to do is to quit ranting about me.  Take a deep breath, step back, and then shut up.  </p>
<p>You are just a pompous, bitchy ass spoiled girl, and that shows plenty in your responses.  Don&#8217;t want people to realize that about you, the don&#8217;t spew out your mouth you stupid ramblings, and I won&#8217;t have any reason to retort back.  :p</p>
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		<title>By: Aribeth Coronet</title>
		<link>http://www.baileylongcloth.com/2010/01/27/its-been-a-while/comment-page-1/#comment-3324</link>
		<dc:creator>Aribeth Coronet</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 29 Jan 2010 16:38:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Prad. &quot;Life&#039;s more fun when you&#039;re snarky at other people&#039;s expense and they can&#039;t fight back without outing themselves in the process.&quot;

This drama has been ongoing for the last couple of weeks now. For the most, people like Bailey who half the drama was aimed at, have been quiet. Hense my first comment to this blog was praising her for being able to rise above it. 

If Ioh has issues with Bailey and Midian and all the rest, okay. He has the right to voice this in his own blog and Flickr. But the fact he has also been lying to suit himself has made the situation ten times worse, with numerous people actually calling him up on his &#039;words of wisdom&#039;. These people would also include myself and Ayami, and you can see from the reaction we&#039;ve had in return by Ioh that rather than be civil, he&#039;s took a dig at our personal relationship and Aya&#039;s past in Midian. All subject that have *nothing* to do with Ioh&#039;s primary issues. 

I give up commenting here, as my efforts are being blatently wasted on someone who is rather self obsessed and no other opinion matters but his, and who thinks he can just throw around insults without them having any repercussions.

*sneaks a peak at PP&#039;s blog*</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Prad. &#8220;Life&#8217;s more fun when you&#8217;re snarky at other people&#8217;s expense and they can&#8217;t fight back without outing themselves in the process.&#8221;</p>
<p>This drama has been ongoing for the last couple of weeks now. For the most, people like Bailey who half the drama was aimed at, have been quiet. Hense my first comment to this blog was praising her for being able to rise above it. </p>
<p>If Ioh has issues with Bailey and Midian and all the rest, okay. He has the right to voice this in his own blog and Flickr. But the fact he has also been lying to suit himself has made the situation ten times worse, with numerous people actually calling him up on his &#8216;words of wisdom&#8217;. These people would also include myself and Ayami, and you can see from the reaction we&#8217;ve had in return by Ioh that rather than be civil, he&#8217;s took a dig at our personal relationship and Aya&#8217;s past in Midian. All subject that have *nothing* to do with Ioh&#8217;s primary issues. </p>
<p>I give up commenting here, as my efforts are being blatently wasted on someone who is rather self obsessed and no other opinion matters but his, and who thinks he can just throw around insults without them having any repercussions.</p>
<p>*sneaks a peak at PP&#8217;s blog*</p>
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		<title>By: Ioh</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ioh</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 29 Jan 2010 16:35:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I don&#039;t have to &#039;man up&#039; to a nonsensical fakie like you, not Aribeth.  For that matter, none of you.  So Laters.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I don&#8217;t have to &#8216;man up&#8217; to a nonsensical fakie like you, not Aribeth.  For that matter, none of you.  So Laters.</p>
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		<title>By: Prad Prathivi</title>
		<link>http://www.baileylongcloth.com/2010/01/27/its-been-a-while/comment-page-1/#comment-3322</link>
		<dc:creator>Prad Prathivi</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 29 Jan 2010 16:10:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>tl;dr.

Okay, I did read most of it. The comments got rather &quot;meh&quot; though.. 

Midian and Angel Square might be its own little world. Second Life is its own little world. The world is its own little world.. you make of it what you want from it, and you don&#039;t bother with the stuff you don&#039;t enjoy. I&#039;m far and long fed up of anything Midian related, but that doesn&#039;t mean I&#039;d stop anyone else from enjoying the place - you just have to remember that like SL and life itself, it&#039;s its own little world. 

You get out what you put into it and also long as you&#039;re getting fulfilment and enjoyment from it, then that&#039;s what counts.

On the subject of blogging stuff like there, there&#039;s a pretty smart way of doing it where everyone on the &quot;inside&quot; knows who you&#039;re on about, but by not mentioning names, you can claim all deniability..

http://blog.pradprathivi.com/2009/01/10/how-to-get-over-your-sl-ex/

Life&#039;s more fun when you&#039;re snarky at other people&#039;s expense and they can&#039;t fight back without outing themselves in the process.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>tl;dr.</p>
<p>Okay, I did read most of it. The comments got rather &#8220;meh&#8221; though.. </p>
<p>Midian and Angel Square might be its own little world. Second Life is its own little world. The world is its own little world.. you make of it what you want from it, and you don&#8217;t bother with the stuff you don&#8217;t enjoy. I&#8217;m far and long fed up of anything Midian related, but that doesn&#8217;t mean I&#8217;d stop anyone else from enjoying the place &#8211; you just have to remember that like SL and life itself, it&#8217;s its own little world. </p>
<p>You get out what you put into it and also long as you&#8217;re getting fulfilment and enjoyment from it, then that&#8217;s what counts.</p>
<p>On the subject of blogging stuff like there, there&#8217;s a pretty smart way of doing it where everyone on the &#8220;inside&#8221; knows who you&#8217;re on about, but by not mentioning names, you can claim all deniability..</p>
<p><a href="http://blog.pradprathivi.com/2009/01/10/how-to-get-over-your-sl-ex/" rel="nofollow">http://blog.pradprathivi.com/2009/01/10/how-to-get-over-your-sl-ex/</a></p>
<p>Life&#8217;s more fun when you&#8217;re snarky at other people&#8217;s expense and they can&#8217;t fight back without outing themselves in the process.</p>
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		<title>By: Aribeth Coronet</title>
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		<dc:creator>Aribeth Coronet</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 29 Jan 2010 16:07:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Ioh, why is it your concern if Ayami goes back to Midian anyway? You left, remember? Or at least that&#039;s what you say. Alts, as you&#039;ve stated above, can be a very powerful tool when it comes to situations like this, and I don&#039;t put it past you to still be in Midian.

You can say what you like about me &amp; Ayami, you know NOTHING about us, so keep your comments to yourself.  This is about your blatent rage against Midian and the people in it. Ayami and I never interfered in your relationship with Bails, so you be a good little boy and stay out of ours.

Oh, as for Nevers - he was a prick and deserved to go. :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ioh, why is it your concern if Ayami goes back to Midian anyway? You left, remember? Or at least that&#8217;s what you say. Alts, as you&#8217;ve stated above, can be a very powerful tool when it comes to situations like this, and I don&#8217;t put it past you to still be in Midian.</p>
<p>You can say what you like about me &amp; Ayami, you know NOTHING about us, so keep your comments to yourself.  This is about your blatent rage against Midian and the people in it. Ayami and I never interfered in your relationship with Bails, so you be a good little boy and stay out of ours.</p>
<p>Oh, as for Nevers &#8211; he was a prick and deserved to go. <img src='http://www.baileylongcloth.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Ayami Imako</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ayami Imako</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 29 Jan 2010 10:33:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>*snerks* Ioh, you obviously have alot to say so man up and say it to me in world, and bring proof for change. I&#039;m done going back and forth with you on BLs blog. But seriously. Get help. This is ridiculous.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>*snerks* Ioh, you obviously have alot to say so man up and say it to me in world, and bring proof for change. I&#8217;m done going back and forth with you on BLs blog. But seriously. Get help. This is ridiculous.</p>
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		<title>By: Ioh</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ioh</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 29 Jan 2010 10:08:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yeah, paranoid?  After you metagamed on me?  Please.  I just don&#039;t, nor never will trust you, because I know what you do to people.  You&#039;ve ruined countless former people, including Nevers, hijacking his job and completely disrespecting him.  No, there&#039;s no love loss between you and me fem boy.  You&#039;re the one who needs a life, or are you just going to keep going back to Midian until you have yet another breakdown and screw people over again.  But hey, that&#039;s what you and the rest of your crew do, is pretend to be nice, then fuck people over.  Maybe it&#039;s best you don&#039;t have a life, so you don&#039;t screw up real life, and just keep it to that little world you make for yourself in on SL. Yeah, just stay there in that pretend world off in your microcosmic world.  I&#039;m sick of your poison, and if you only ever go to Angel Square and Midian, then good.  Means the rest of SL doesn&#039;t have to be infested with your virus.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yeah, paranoid?  After you metagamed on me?  Please.  I just don&#8217;t, nor never will trust you, because I know what you do to people.  You&#8217;ve ruined countless former people, including Nevers, hijacking his job and completely disrespecting him.  No, there&#8217;s no love loss between you and me fem boy.  You&#8217;re the one who needs a life, or are you just going to keep going back to Midian until you have yet another breakdown and screw people over again.  But hey, that&#8217;s what you and the rest of your crew do, is pretend to be nice, then fuck people over.  Maybe it&#8217;s best you don&#8217;t have a life, so you don&#8217;t screw up real life, and just keep it to that little world you make for yourself in on SL. Yeah, just stay there in that pretend world off in your microcosmic world.  I&#8217;m sick of your poison, and if you only ever go to Angel Square and Midian, then good.  Means the rest of SL doesn&#8217;t have to be infested with your virus.</p>
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		<title>By: Ayami Imako</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ayami Imako</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 29 Jan 2010 09:41:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>My alts? Whom are you referring to Ioh? I have three avatars, thats it .. Ayami Imako, Danica Forster (who was MPD and retired a month after I left with Ayami) and Mori Kaligawa who I played in Midian all of four times and was gonna go parish with but then things happened with me and Elise so I flat retired her, and haven&#039;t been on her since.. 

Oooh I know. You&#039;ve been listening to Ashur. Who tried to claim I was someone else before based off a local conversation (that she didn&#039;t bother to read completely first) she gathered with what I presume was one of her alts as she wasn&#039;t present at the time and herself retracted only minutes after sending out the notecard. So feel free to speak up Ioh .. who else is it you think I am? 

Gods you are the most paranoid twisted person I have ever met. For the love of god get a life.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My alts? Whom are you referring to Ioh? I have three avatars, thats it .. Ayami Imako, Danica Forster (who was MPD and retired a month after I left with Ayami) and Mori Kaligawa who I played in Midian all of four times and was gonna go parish with but then things happened with me and Elise so I flat retired her, and haven&#8217;t been on her since.. </p>
<p>Oooh I know. You&#8217;ve been listening to Ashur. Who tried to claim I was someone else before based off a local conversation (that she didn&#8217;t bother to read completely first) she gathered with what I presume was one of her alts as she wasn&#8217;t present at the time and herself retracted only minutes after sending out the notecard. So feel free to speak up Ioh .. who else is it you think I am? </p>
<p>Gods you are the most paranoid twisted person I have ever met. For the love of god get a life.</p>
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