It seems I’ve no other choice…

Posted by: Bailey Longclothin Gripes
8
Dec

To the regular readers of my blog, you’ve seen the many seamingly pointless comments left on many of my posts.  They are all left by the same person using numerous anonymous email addresses.  How do I know it’s the same person?  IP address traces.  We are never totally anonymous on the internet.

Most recently he claims he simply wants an answer from me.  He overlooks I gave him that answer on November 10, 2008 in the email I’ve copied below.  It’s not editted except for the email address.  Why am I doing this?  It’s come to my attention he has been trolling the blogs of my friends.  Should any of you see a comment from him about me or something on my blog, just ignore it.  Don’t answer him.

Below is the email I sent him on November 10th of this year telling him to leave me alone.

—————————- Original Message —————————-
Subject: Re:
From: baileylongcloth@angelsquare.net
Date: Mon, November 10, 2008 12:43 pm
To:xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

————————————————————————–

Yes I’ve gotten all of your voicemail, email and IMs. Yes I’ve seen the
comments on my blog as have all of my friends.

You really have no concept of privacy do you?

First: SL and RL are TOTALLY SEPARATE.
- You do not combine them without the express permission of the other
party.
- Using my real name or initials in a blog post, or professing your love
for me in a crowded room are WRONG.
- Creating a new avatar every day and coming to the Crown to spy on me
is WRONG, RUDE and DISTURBING.
- Commenting on my SL Blog and trying to draw ANY comparison to RL is
totally offbase and WRONG. You can’t use a comment I made about SL, and
something specific of which you know NOTHING and try to use it to your
advantage. It doesn’t work. Not that I need to explain, but the blog
post you quoted was one in which I was talking “a couple”, two people IN A
RELATIONSHIP.

Second: I said last week I didn’t want to talk to you. Yet you continue
to email, to call. Stop calling, stop emailing me. You keep telling me
how you feel, and what I should or shouldn’t do based on how you feel. Do
my feelings or wishes mean anything? Do you have no respect for what I
want?

Third: Marking all the email you send me as return receipt is typical
stalker behaviour. You’ve embarrassed me in front of my friends, you’ve
crossed any number of boundaries, you continue to say you’ll leave me
alone and then send me 6 emails. You said you’d leave me alone in SL and
yet you have a new av everynight.

Fourth: This email does not require a reply. Just stop calling and
emailing me
. And stay away from me in SL. I don’t want to have you
banned from the service entirely but I will if I have to.

Stopping by my desk today was highly inappropriate.

None of this is open for debate Mxxx. If you can’t do what I ask I’ll
have to go to the authorities.

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6 comments so far

1.  Aribeth Coronet
December 9th, 2008 at 4:25 am

Mhmm, and this was dated November 10th. Has he left you alone since then? Ha.

The guy is a complete asshole, and a weirdo asshole at that. I like to think I know you pretty well over the two years that we’ve been friends, and you certainly don’t deserve this aggravation. You should’ve gone to the authorities a while ago, IMO.

What does leaving pointless comments on this blog achieve exactly, M***? If the lady has asked you to leave her be, then leave her be! It’s not hard.

If you feel she’s done something wrong, then rise above it and get over it. Just leave her alone!

2.  Landsend Korobase
December 9th, 2008 at 5:46 am

It’s hard to imagine a clearer message than the one you gave him in that email hon. He keeps acting like he’s been rational and like his stalking is somehow “justified”. Well it’s not, and it has to stop. I don’t know if he’ll stop after you publishing this, but I wish you the best in your efforts to make him do so. <3

3.  Natalya Homewood
December 9th, 2008 at 8:57 am

It’s hard to believe that someone wouldn’t get the hint after that email.. I hope this blog posts helps to sort your problem out BL *hugs*

4.  Prad Prathivi
December 9th, 2008 at 9:38 am

I can only imagine how hard this is on you, Bailey, and I hope this serves its purpose.

There comes a point where someone just has to accept that it’s not going to happen, and to move on with life.

Your email, and this blog entry, make it crystal clear that you’re not interested. I hope for the sake of your sanity and for us, your friends who have been worried about you for so long, that this all stops here.

5.  Fall
December 9th, 2008 at 10:02 am

I guess I missed those parts T****

sorry

And for Airheadbeth, fuck off <3

6.  HellSpawneD Xingjian
December 10th, 2008 at 12:29 pm

*Huge hugs* love. We can only imagine what this must feel like to you day after day and I sincerly hope this finally gets thru to him and this needless behaviour ceases.